Cancer is a horrible disease. To survive it is a blessing. If you have a loved one who has survived, part of you may be wondering how best to help them. Sometimes, you just don’t know what to say.

There are many ways to be a great friend to your loved one

Going to see them is a great idea; however, make sure to call before just dropping by

Not only is this more polite, but being sick can be very unpredictable. Everyone has bad days. Just don’t take it personally if they say no or if they have to cancel at the last minute.

One great way to help is to offer to assist with daily tasks

You could help them with a load of laundry or run to the grocery store. If they have children, babysitting or even just picking the kids up from school is a great way to help.

Food may not be the best thing to bring

With chemotherapy and other cancer medications, the person may be experiencing nausea and vomiting. Bringing a casserole may not be very useful. Ask your friend if they need food. Every illness is different, but nausea and vomiting are common side effects.

Also, if you would like to bring gifts or pay for things, think outside the box

Food may not be a good option. Flowers may not be appropriate for someone with a compromised immune system. You could get them a gift certificate for a cleaning service or …